View Post 3 min The Confidant The Dreamer How to Stop Personalizing Rejection Posted on September 15, 2021September 18, 2026byStarla Gatson The choice to be gentle with myself after a rejection has been worth it every single time. Share
View Post 3 min The Dreamer How to Navigate the Growing Pains of Adulthood Posted on September 2, 2021September 18, 2026byStarla Gatson Change is a good thing. It’s a necessary part of life. Share
View Post 2 min The Dreamer Darling Letters: How to Take Up Space Posted on July 19, 2021September 18, 2026byStarla Gatson I’m learning to take up every bit of space I’ve been given, and it feels good. Share
View Post 3 min The Confidant The Dreamer Why You Should Check In on the Friend Who ‘Has It All Together’ This Christmas Posted on December 22, 2020September 18, 2026byStarla Gatson Yes, she may be strong, but strong people are not immune to struggle. Share
View Post 4 min The Confidant Here’s the Problem with Stereotypes (and How to Challenge Them) Posted on November 30, 2020September 18, 2026byStarla Gatson To challenge stereotypes, you must be willing to lean into connection and listen to understand. Share
View Post 3 min The Confidant Letters to My Younger Self: The 18-Year-Old Who Thinks She Doesn’t Measure Up Posted on October 7, 2020September 18, 2026byStarla Gatson You are not perfect, and though this is a fact you wrestle with to this day, you are fiercely loved anyway. Share
View Post 3 min The Intellectual Why Did We Wait Until Quarantine to Be Intentional? Posted on May 1, 2020September 18, 2026byStarla Gatson Maybe the discomfort of this forced pause will remind us that we need to become reacquainted with rest. Share